The story of Abigail has always intrigued me. David’s men had been guarding her husband’s shepherds and sheep and making sure no one stole from them while they were pasturing in an away place. When it came time for the herd to be sheered David sent men to ask for a gift of appreciation to be given. Nabal, Abigail’s husband refused to give the offering and insulted David. David’s human response was to instruct his men to strap on their weapons and go and wipe the entire family out. Abigail heard what Nabal had done and she responded decisively preparing food portions for David and his men. The she went and upon encountering David she fell to the ground and pleaded for forgiveness admitting that her husband was not wise in his response. Her quick and decisive actions saved not just the life of her husband, but also of every male in their home. As I pondered the actions of Abigail I thought that was probably not the first time she had be pressed to make amends for her husband. Even when she returned he was drunk and had no idea of the impending peril he had placed his home in. God responded by allowing Nabal to have a stroke and he died in a few days. Abigail was sent for by David and he made her his wife. Her wisdom, forward thinking, decisiveness, and understanding made her a perfect mate for one who was running for his life with a band of men.
How does this story apply to our lives? There will be times we all encounter people like Nabal. He was self serving and so egocentric he did not even realize the mess he was making. In those cases, remember God sees and knows . His vengeance is much better than yours. Also have compassion on those who must live with a Nabal. His choices absolutely affect his people but they are not usually the heart of others in the home. They too are embarrassed and probably harassed by their leader’s poor judgement. Be slow to judge them and quick to forgive.