Love Well

“I love you.” Don’t you treasure sweet relationships? I sure do. One of the things I have asked the Father is to help me to see ways daily I can pour my life out on the people He puts in my path. This love takes many different forms like making lunch for workers at the house, listening to a hurting friend, or taking flowers to a sweet widow. I want to be tender of heart and mind and to have ears to hear where others are hurting or have needs. I don’t always say “I love you,” although I do voice that at times. I want them to see by my hearing their needs and trying to meet them that I am saying I care about you. I love you can be communicated so many ways including a smile, a healthy touch like a pat on the back, or just stopping long enough to really hear what someone is saying.
Tomorrow we celebrate a day where love is in the spotlight. Why not pray today and ask God to reveal to you someone who needs to know they are loved and cared about. Listen and think about how you can best communicate care for that person. It may be something as simple as taking them a card or candy. It could be taking them flowers. It could be that God wants you to ask them to join you for a meal or take brownies to them. No matter how you choose to show your love and care for others just do it. Don’t allow inconvenience or lethargy prevent you from doing what God is calling you to do. Most of all, have fun!

Answering Fear

Matt. 10:21-42, Ex.1-3: So many wonderful things in today’s scripture reading. Many of the passages today dealt with people who were fearful. The passage in Matthew talked about people who were fearful because of people who turned against them and said bad things about them. Jesus’ response, 28“Don’t be afraid of those who want to kill your body; they cannot touch your soul. Fear only God, who can destroy both soul and body in hell.” I love it that immediately after this scripture He reassures them that they are of great value to Him. He reminds them that God knows when a sparrow falls and He cares for them much more than the sparrow. He declares that He knows the very number of hairs on their head. He knows us intimately and He doesn’t just say He cares, He really does care.
A perfect picture of this is seen in Exodus 1-3 when God heard the cries of His people who were captive in Egypt. He sent them a deliverer through Moses. To Moses God reminded him that He would be with him and that “I Am” would be whatever he needed Him to be.
How about you, are you facing anything that is making you fearful right now? I loved what a gentleman in my Sunday School class said yesterday, “When fear comes knocking at your door, answer it with faith. When faith answers the door there will be no one standing there. ” What a great reminder to me to answer my fears with faith and to see God make fear run.

Abraham’s Servant Heart Genesis 18

One of the things that stood out to me today was Abraham’s servant spirit. When the two visitors showed up his first inclination was to serve them a meal. Granted he did not do all of the cooking, but he did go and have things prepared. He served them his best. What a wonderful example to us of how God would have us treat those who are visitors in our homes, but also in our churches. Here are some principles I took away.
* See them, not just acknowledge they are there, but stop your world to greet them and speak.
* Offer them hospitality. These men needed to eat, your guests may just need someone to sit with or for you to just listen to them.
* Give them your best. Abraham offered them his best food. He treated them as royalty. When we treat others with respect they know they are valued.
* Blessings immeasurable came Abraham’s way because of the way he treated his guests.
* Our hospitality is seen by others and it is an example. Lot, though he made some bad choices, made a good choice when he too invited the men to stay in his home. I wonder if it was because of the example set for him.
In the end Hebrews tells us to be hospitable for by so doing some have entertained angels unaware.

An Unusual Christmas

When we were writing Missional Christmas there was NO WAY we could have seen how different this Christmas would really be. I have always decorated big for Christmas. This year my decorating is with insulation and finally sheetrock!!!!! Hooray! Our mission field walks through the door daily. In years past they were church members and community people. I had parties and ministered to those who were lonely but most them had some knowledge of a relationship with Jesus. WELL, we couldn’t be any further from that this year. Some of our workers have spent time incarcerated. Others live in unheated homes and choose which meals they can afford to eat each day. Ministry has looked like a hot meal, sending leftovers home to mentally handicapped younger siblings, and seeing physical needs like coats and work belts. I have never walked into a store and the first thing I thought about was getting small gifts for our workers like electrical tape, measuring tapes, pencils and the like. I have NEVER been so fulfilled in making meals when men eat seconds and thirds until there is nothing left to eat. My heart has been more filled than I can even put into words.

Missional Christmas

For those not doing the Advent Journal with us, I wanted to give you a taste of what we are reading. Les wrote today’s devotion and here is one of the illustrations he used.
I heard about a mom and kids who begged their husband
and dad to join them for the Christmas Eve service, but
he wasn’t a churchgoer for 51 other weeks in the year,
and he didn’t see the need to make the week of December
25th an exception. No, he would stay home on the snowy
Christmas Eve in New England and keep the fire going.
The man was watching It’s a Wonderful Life for the
gazillionth time, when he heard a thump on the window.
A few seconds later, there was another thump. He
walked to the window to discover that birds were flying
into the window in an effort to escape the cold and the
wind outside.
The man’s heart went out to the desperate creatures, so
he ran to the barn, opened the door, and turned the light
on, hoping they would fly to shelter, but they didn’t
The man ran over to the birds and began to yell and
wave his arms, hoping to guide them toward the barn
and into safety, but his actions only seemed to cause them
to panic.
The frustrated would-be savior thought to himself, “If
only I could get through to them! If only I spoke their
language. If I could be a bird, just for a few seconds, I
could save them. . .”
At that thought, the man stopped dead in his tracks. Why
hadn’t he seen it before? He quickly checked his watch.
Maybe it wasn’t too late. He ran inside the house,
grabbed the keys to his truck, and drove off into the night
toward the church, where an unsuspecting family was
getting ready to receive their best Christmas present ever.
There’s an old Christmas song that reads,
“Little Baby in a manger, I love you. Coming down to earth a
stranger, I love you. Wise men saw the star and answered, ‘I
love you.’ Little baby in a manger, I love you.”
And that baby grew up to be a man—a perfect
man—the Son of God. He loved us enough to put
skin on, come to this earth, live a selfless life, die a
sacrificial death for our sins, be raised from the
dead, eventually to go back to His Father and
prepare a place for all who will trust and follow
Him. – LH

Hold on

Romans 8 is such a great reminder of the hope we have as children of God. 8:18 “For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us. ” You may be suffering here on earth, but it is only for a time if you are a child of God. In days to come Jesus will come again and take us home! There will be no sin, sickness, sorry or pain. Praise the Lamb! Until then remember 8:28 “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” ALL THINGS! Whatever your struggle, challenge, or heartbreak it may not be good, but it works together for your good. Last but certainly not least, 8:37 “No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, 39nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. ” Press on sweet friend, the best truly is yet to come.

What a Mess

“What a mess!” That is what the electrician said as he walked through the house checking out the work that was to be done. He tried to follow a wire from one end to the other and found what looked like spider webs of wire tangled together. He found places where wires had been twisted together with a plastic cap holding them together. He found junction boxes crammed with more wires than should have been in them. They began pulling the jumbles of wire down and dismantling junction boxes in an effort to rewire and correct what had been at 2 additions to what had been the original house. It was almost like watching a treasure hunt as one electrician would say to the other where does that go? Or have you seen where this goes to? Other times they were looking outside the house, under it, or in the attic for leads to where a wire would go. When all of the wire was finally detached from the house wire covered the floor and looked like a puzzle or chaos.
Over and over the men would say, “I am sorry for making such a mess.” They would take each wire and roll it up for easier removal. Years of dirt and dust covered the encased wire. The Chinese sheet rock had discolored and affected some. I just kept thinking, “Father, thank you for letting us get this straightened out before we moved in. Thank you for revealing the problems so they could be fixed without tearing the walls down again. Thank you for bringing men to this project who have been inspectors and know how to do it right.”
What was once a mess will soon be made right and all of the electricity functioning properly. No more will we have switches that serve no purpose or outlets that don’t work.
Do you feel like your life is somewhat of a mess? Are there parts of your life that is out of hand or just doesn’t work anymore? Maybe it is time to spend time with the Father and allow Him to do a total system over hall. Ask Him to check each and every relationship in your life to see does it connect you will a deeper relationship with Jesus or pull you away. Ask Him to check your basic foundations of faith. Are they grounded in God’s word or traditions from your family or church? Ask Him to check your junction boxes of contact with Him. Have you rested on what God did in your life yesterday or even years ago instead of having a fresh encounter with Him? Spend time in prayer asking Him for a fresh connection with Him. Then allow Him to wrap up anything that wasn’t of Him. Have Him untangle relationships or friendships that may have gotten “bent out of shape”. Give Him free reign to rewire you in any way that brings Him glory. He is the most trustworthy project manager you will ever depend on.

Life Can Change Quickly

Life can change in a matter of minutes. I woke up this morning to find out a friend had lost a lake house that she and her husband had built. He died a few years ago and recently she sold her home and moved into a mother in law’s sweet at her dear daughter’s home. She had reasoned that keeping up two places was just too much so she would keep the lake house so the family could gather there in the summer and on holidays as they have for years. She chose to move many of her treasures like pictures and special memorabilia to the lake house for safe keeping since they would not fit in the small apartment.
Early this morning she received a call that changed everything. Apparently a fire had started on the back deck. The house was engulfed in flames immediately with the dry weather and nothing had been saved. We drove up to the lake this morning early to be with my friend and try to comfort her. As we drove up she was heaving with tears. Our hearts were breaking too and tears filled my eyes. As I held her and she just wept. There was nothing that could console until God placed verses from His word on my heart and I began to speak the verses He gave to me. Soon the sobs subsided and she was able to calm her emotions. What nothing else could do His word was the comfort.
The silver lining if there can be one when everything is charred was that they found a few special things. A stone that was engraved in remembrance of her husband was a precious treasure. The volunteer firefighter who was like family to her dug through the smoldering soot to pull out a hand full of pictures that were seared around the edges. A picture of her wedding day, a few pictures from her childhood and a picture taken with her daughter were burned but salvageable. A few pipes of a wind chime given to her when her husband died were among the treasures.
God reminded me today that we are to hold things loosely. The only thing eternal is our relationship with God and others who claim Him as Savior. He also reminded me that He is there even in the darkest experiences and He cares about us leaving a few treasures along the way. I was reminded of the value of family and friends when your darkest days come. And most of all His Word can bring peace when nothing else can suffice.
My sweet friend is learning to praise Him in the dark and she is being a bright light for Him. Please join me in praying for my friend and ask the Father to show her the next steps.

Surprises Along the Way

14595733_10154613060158077_1928024881527030668_nIn renovating the house there have been many surprises along the way. Some have been bad like the stone on the front having to be removed, but some have been very good. Yesterday as the electricians were wiring the house again they hooked power back up to the lights in the pool. We had no idea if the lights would work or if they too would be one more things that would need a repair. When the switch was flipped, Woo Hoo! We had light!!! We have celebrated and rejoiced.
Another of the big celebrations was the fence. We knew we wanted to fence the property so we could bring the horses home. Les priced the fencing and it was going to cost a small fortune to buy the materials for a three board fence. We prayed about having wisdom to know where to look. Les found a fence in a city and hour and a half away and talked with the man about selling us the fence he was taking down. We got it and a barn for much less than just the materials for the fence would be. Some men went and took the fence down then brought it to our land. Les hired a couple of amazing men and once again God surprised us with a beautiful fence that we will enjoy for years to come.
Some things we have had to learn in our journey is that God’s timing is always perfect. As we have waited and watched, God has 14910337_10154613061708077_8095449829743578835_ndelivered. If we had been in a hurry some of the great things would have been missed. His timing in people wanting to sell or even the right contractors to do work has been imperative.
Having eyes open to what is around you is has also been a game changer. Though we have a contractor who is subbing the 14606535_10154613061143077_4190211840958387283_nrenovations out, Les has been proactive in finding materials and things we need at a good price. We have laughed more than once that completing this house has been a team project. Isn’t that what God wants for us spiritually too? He puts us together as a team or a body to bring about His plans and design. When you work together everyone gets to share in the victories. We are ready for the party to begin!

It’s All In What You See

Recently one of our friends came to see the house. We have been a little discouraged because in the last 3 weeks there has not been a whole lot of work taking place on the house that is evident to the eye. When our friend had walked through the entire property she turned around and said, “When others see shepherd boy, God sees a King.” She was referring to that bible story of David who would become one of the greatest Kings in Israel’s history. Many people saw him as just a shepherd boy. He was not the biggest of his brothers, smartest, or even the most handsome. He was God’s pick!
Our friend said “I see how God is going to use this place in mighty ways.” I almost wanted to cry. We have been so near to the project daily that our hearts have at times been discouraged. We want it all completed and yet we know that time is the gift God has given us to see each part of the house done cost effectively and yet with excellence. Every step we can come away thanking God that He has revealed major problems that had been covered up. Had they not been discovered they could have cost thousands in years to come to replace. While the house is to the stud it is easier to see these problems and yet we are weary of finding yet another challenge.
Isn’t that how it is in our personal lives as well though. Deep underneath what we want people to see, God sees not just our imperfection and sinful hearts, but he also sees the potential for what we will one day be. Glory to God! He sees a person clean before Him because of His Son. One who walks with Him and knows and does His bidding, even if we are not quite there yet. Oh how my heart thrills to know that where others see me less than, God sees me as filled with potential and forgiven in His eyes.
Ask the Father today to help you see yourself as He sees you. Then walk in what you know God wants you to be. Others may see a less than, but He sees you as His child, precious to Him and highly favored!